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I hope all of you in MA are getting just as much snow as you want and no more. Holiday greetings to one and all.
Ramona
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 19:49:11 (PST)
meat was good company was better
paul pingree
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 19:16:51 (PST)
There's magic in the air here in Massachusetts - and lots of big snow flakes! Spent Christmas eve with the kids at Pam's place. This morning got to watch Cameron enjoy the gifts of Christmas - with complete joy - in his new batman costume. Now I'm back in Northampton which looks like a shaken snow globe - with nobody on the streets and not a plow in sight - and everything turning quickly white. Maybe I'll put on my cross country skis and ski around the town before it gets dark - and come back home for hot chocolate.
Scott
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 11:52:08 (PST)
Merry Christmas to my wonderful family. Here in Acton we have had a grand Christmas. Turkey is cooking in the oven, fire in the hearth and a snowstorm out the window. All is right with the world. Yours?
Paula
Wednesday, December 25, 2002 at 11:31:34 (PST)
from one who is most grateful this Cristmas eve, I want you to know that I have one of the best presents ever given to man. I feel like my old self with very few problems left except for the insicion to heal. feel so good I wish I could see everyone of you and shout MERY CHRISTMAS. Slnce that is impossible accept this as if I were there. so MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY DAYS ! your buddy
paul
Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 19:34:59 (PST)
Albert and all the other Sharptons wish to extend to the vast and caring Stylos Family our Christmas greetings and are pleased to share love and affection to our dear brother and sister. So from my air-conditioned family office to all of you from the Great Northwest to New England and even extending to France.... Joyeux Noel and Merry Christmas!!!!
albert
albert sharpton
Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 16:29:50 (PST)
Sending out my love, to the (((Extended Stylos Family))), where ever you find yourself tonight. I hope you are all safe and warm and in the company of those you love.
mona
Tuesday, December 24, 2002 at 14:51:51 (PST)
Thank you to my gracious guests for sharing a fun day - sorry about the shortage of chairs and silverware - but anyway eating standing up is good for digestion.
Scott
Monday, December 23, 2002 at 08:07:57 (PST)
Scott did a wonderful job hosting a family Sunday dinner yesterday. Roast chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans, and a cake made by Melissa. Great company- all his kids (plus Rose), my kids, and Athena (plus Amy). Oh, and Mark too. A houseful. I think I can speak for all when I say we had a great time. How are the rest of you?
Paula
Monday, December 23, 2002 at 03:52:55 (PST)
Hey Vanessa! Thanks for the good wishes. Nice to read your message from way across the sea. Keep on writing. I miss you! I hope you too have a very Merry Christmas. Love,
Paulala
Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 06:42:29 (PST)
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL !!!!
AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!
Vanessa
Sunday, December 22, 2002 at 06:01:08 (PST)
Uncle Buddy we hope that you are feeling better. don't forget to take baby steps on your road to recovery. I know it hard to be patient but you need to so we can enjoy your great jokes and wisdom in person.
Aunt Ramona don't forget to tell him you are the boss on this journey. But I know he knows it anyway.
It is hard to believe the first day of winter is tomorrow and currently it is 50 degrees outside. I wish it was snow.
Merry Christmas to all and a peaceful New Year!
Kim
Friday, December 20, 2002 at 18:30:17 (PST)
I'm falling down on my daily duty here, now that things are looking up. The was the best day yet for the patient. He even drove himself out to the grocery store in search of apricot nectar. I officially cancelled my trip west and we already have an invitation for Christmas dinner. I think that with lots of rest and sensible eating Paul will be his old self again. Thanks to everybody for your concern and good wishes.
Ramona
Friday, December 20, 2002 at 17:47:55 (PST)
Okay Dad, time for a report. How are you today? I await your good word. Love,
Paula
Friday, December 20, 2002 at 17:09:58 (PST)
Hey everybody, thanks for all the birthday wishes. Not as nice as having you all here, but I won't complain. Had a quiet but pleasant day. I guess I'm ready for xmas and a new year. Bring it on!
Scottrick
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 20:14:35 (PST)
A very happy Belated Birthday wishes to the Birthday Boys.
I feel much better knowing that my brother is home and in the tender care of his Bride.
Thankyou Scott for the explanation of the problem.
Also thankyou for the dinner invitation, if we lived closer we'd take you up on it.
We are nearing the end of settling the estate. Closing on the house on 12/30; go to court in early January and it will be the end of what has been a very painfull time for us.
Karen bought Sue's car which made us very happy because it still is in the family.
Wishing you all a happy Christmas and a Gentle New Year...Love, Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 18:47:23 (PST)
Yes, Great Scott, this is a much better family because of you. A pillar of strength and stability. I'm sure that you had a Happy Birthday. Hopefully the rest of the holidays will be just as happy. §
Steve
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 18:17:18 (PST)
Scott you most gentle and princely gentleman have a happy year and a remainder of a birthday. I want you to know I have always appreciated your gentle thoughtfulness and nature. where did you come by it. I know its from you mother and it goes good for both of you.
paul
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 16:16:41 (PST)
And I know for an everlovin' fact that I am not now, nor have I ever been a so called "early riser".
(((((Scott)))))) ~ wish I could be giving you hugs in person. Many happy returns to you, too. But not, like, gift returns.
mona
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 15:28:56 (PST)
Guess I do not fall into the early risers category ... Happiests to Scottrick, who, I'm sure, is enojoying things in NoHo to a max! Go, Scott!
Mark
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 15:09:21 (PST)
Happy Birthday to Scott. (You can tell who the early risers are.)Scott, next year let's celebrate your half-birthday, on June 19, instead of your birthday, so you won't get squeezed in-between Steve and Christmas.
Paul had a good first-night-home so I guess the crisis is over. He says he plans to eat light for awhile. He looks good at his "running weight."
Mamaramona
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 05:05:00 (PST)
And now Scott! Time to celebrate his birthday. I ordered a warm sunny day for you, hope you like it. I am looking forward to initiating your home on Sunday as the new Stylos hangout. We will try to limit the property damage. Happy Birthday! Love,
Paula
Thursday, December 19, 2002 at 04:15:55 (PST)
Thank you all, for the birthday wishes. I had a very peaceful and happy birthday. I got a very nice fondue set from my children, and had a very nice Greek dinner with Tim and Ana. And to top it off, I got the best present of all, my Dad came home from the hospital. We're here to love ya' Dad, so get well quick so we call all head east. And lest I forget, let me be the first to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SCOTT! I can say that because on the east coast, his birthday is already happening. And Happy Holidays to all. §
Steve
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 22:19:26 (PST)
Hey Dad. So glad you are home. You certainly have (and deserve) the best of care there. Hope you are taking it easy and know how much you are loved by all of us.
Paula
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 18:05:44 (PST)
Happy Birthday, Steve. I loves you like a brother!
The other Mark
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 17:56:17 (PST)
I'm glad you're home, Dad. I love you. Be nice to the nurse now, ya hear? :)
mona
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 16:37:04 (PST)
Once again I find myself in my comfortale home with my beatiful bride. I am not completely well but in no serious pain and somewhat afraid to eat heartily.
but I am sure I will overcome that too.
paul
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 16:29:26 (PST)
That goes for me, too! I'm sure you will find a way to make the most of it, where ever you are.
Mark
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 15:46:28 (PST)
Just spoke with my Mom, who says Dad is doing well, and will hopefully be going home later today. He was re-admitted because of an ileus - i.e. sluggish bowels related to the recent surgery - not unusual after abdominal surgery.
Looking forward to having family over for dinner this Sunday, including 2 of my sisters. Anyone else who would like to come is welcome. Peter? Naki and Lee? Send me an email if interested and I'll send you directions: scott@stylos.net
Scott
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 13:42:03 (PST)
I'll send you an email update, Naki. At this point, all's still on track for a good recovery.
(((Steve))) Many happy returns of this birthday day to you, my good brother.
mona
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 13:23:09 (PST)
Hello to all. I am concerned about my brother. What is up? Why is he back in the hospital? When will he be home? Please let me know what is going on.
I tend to be overly concerned about things but I was
taken by surprise when I heard he was back in the hospital, so this really threw me for a loop.
hansonnaki@msn.com
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 12:15:47 (PST)
Yay Steve!!! You're probably still asleep out there on the west coast - I know I would be. But when you wake up, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Would love to be out there to celabrate with you. Maybe one of these years. Meanwhile, best wishes from here in the home state.
One week until xmas, two until new years!
Scott
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 06:00:45 (PST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Steve, from someone who has known you since BEFORE you were born. It is my pride and delight to have you for a son. Enjoy your day.
Mama
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 05:19:49 (PST)
I have waited a year to say: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEVIE! Have I told you lately that I am proud to have you for my big brother? Hope your day is warm and dry, and full of laughter, good food, and presents. Love from
Paula June
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 04:04:40 (PST)
Hello Everyone I want to say hello to Jessamyn iits been along time since I seen you last.How is school going ? Good I hope I would love to see you. write me back if you can I don't have a phone so if you have one will you post it for me?
wendy
Monday, December 16, 2002 at 06:40:33 (PST)
Hi Buddy: I am glad you are home from the hospital.
You must take it easy recupperating, you are in the tough time of healing now. Don't over due it. You probably think you are stronger than you are.
We are ok. It has been hard and I know we will have to learn to live with this unbearable pain. The love and support we have received from the family has been of great comfort to us. Let us give a cheer for e-mail!!!!
I am not sending Christmas cards this year so let me wish everyone "Joy in your life". Thank you for all your love and support. I couldn't have come this far without it. Naki
I am not sending Christmas cards out so I will just say, "Joy to the world, and wish everyone Peaace and
good health in the New Year". Thank you all for your love and support, Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 16:28:03 (PST)
Well, Sue, we all got lucky when Dick won your heart! Congratulations on the impending arrival to the Kevin Straley family!!
Betsy, David and I just got home with a beautiful Grand Fir. We have a tree farm about a mile and a half from our house - this great old Norwegian guy runs it, and it's a highlight of our Christmas festivities, going for the tree. This year we even have a tree stand that works well!!
Last night my band played at a (very small) private party, and we actually sounded pretty good. I'm having lots of fun, and after a year, I'm starting to get the hang of this bass thing. Fingers, arms, knees are sore today, though. And I'm pretty exhausted (caught the 1AM ferry home). But exhausted in a good way.
mona
Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 13:06:21 (PST)
wow i got out of the loop for a few weeks and wow all sort of news. we went to falls church va. to visit with karen andkevin and owen for thanksgivng. we are happy to tell you all that there will be a new member of the straleys in april. karen requires a lot of rest as it is high risk but everything is going very well and we are thrilled. somehow this page stops for me and i see nothing new for weeks until i get mark to fix it for me. does anyone else have that problem. ???? we are thrilled to have two more minutes of light coming soon per day. greetings and love to you all. i agree buddy need to be sure you know you are all loved each and everyone of you. by me there i said it too. lets start this circle of love. how lucky i feel to be part of such a wonderful family.......
sue straley
Saturday, December 14, 2002 at 12:50:15 (PST)
The weekend's here, so all of you with a 5-day a week job, rejoice. Then go finish your Christmas shopping if you're not one of the growing number of people opting out of the December frenzy.
Buddy is recuperating well. He has a track marked out in the house that he walks to get his exercise. The weather is too wet and too cold to be outside.
Only a week or so until the days start getting longer. (Doesn't that sound better than "the first day of winter"?)
Ramona
Friday, December 13, 2002 at 16:18:52 (PST)
Hi Uncle Buddy! Sorry to hear about your illness! I am glad that you are now back at home with all the comforts you enjoy. I know that Aunt Ramona will make sure that you do not overdue it to early. You are in great hands! Relax and enjoy her pampering!
Naki I never heard that story about the date of the first snow storm would determine the number of days of actually snow. I will have to keep track of it though! Hopefully we will get some more snow tomorrow but I think it might be rain instead.
Kim
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 17:36:02 (PST)
And a Happy Birthday to Al. Spoiled once again by wonderful Betty, I'm sure ...
Mark
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:47:59 (PST)
Welcome Home Dad !
Mark
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:46:49 (PST)
After five lovely days in the hospital I am HOME. I have been carefuly kept and am in reasonable good spirits. I must say it is fun to read these messages and it makes up for a lot of lost communication in the past. I especially like reading the Naki messages and do not worry naki i will be there with you. Now for a little more rest then a little work then a check up with the doc, then the visit to the north. Hell, I guess I realy have it made, and by the way have I ever told you all that I really love you If not then it is done.
buddy
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:41:38 (PST)
Hey Paul,
Sorry to hear about your recent ailment :(
Best wishes for a speedy recovery!
Best Regards,
Chris & Cheryl
Christopher & Cheryl Klein
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 09:30:59 (PST)
Phones are working again. I'm still not sure what the trouble was.
The lab report following Paul's surgery was, as the doctor put it, neither the best nor the worst: he had a carcinoid tumor on the small intestine. It looks like it was all removed, but there will likely be further tests to make sure it is totally clear. In the meantime the wound is healing fine, he's up and about, eating ice-cream and gathering a fan club from among the nurses and attendants. He may come home today or tomorrow.
Ramona
Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 05:50:35 (PST)
I understand Mom's phone is out of order. I'm glad to see that she is checking the cables first. That's usually what it is. I'm in Minnesota. It's not too cold here. Actually, I am at the airport. I'll be in SF for the rest of the week in case anyone is looking for me. Doesn't look like Ana and I will be coming east for Christmas. But our plans to go to Greece in February are still on. So.....Get Well Quick, Dad! I'm sure that you will be doing that anyway. Hopefully in time to see the Patriots repeat in the Superbowl. §
Steve
Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 17:32:56 (PST)
And now???...
mona
Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 15:47:42 (PST)
Love and best wishes of a speedy recovery to my buddy
Jessamyn
Monday, December 09, 2002 at 16:19:37 (PST)
Paul is continuing to improve. Today he took a liquid diet and walked several times up and down the hall. Some pain but nothing like it was. He's flirting with the nurses so that has got to be a good sign.
Ramona
Monday, December 09, 2002 at 16:16:39 (PST)
We had an awful lot of good years in this family, and we will have more, I'm sure.
David is as handsome as always - maybe more so, now that his hair is growing out again!!
:)
I'll send a mail update soon, with more details.
mona
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 20:57:22 (PST)
I spoke with Buddy tonight. He was groggy and I didn't want to press him into talking, so I will call him tomorrow or Tuesday.
There is just to much happening to this family. I used to have a reocurring nighmare years ago that everyone in the family died and I was the only one left. The nighmare is returning and I now have to live with two. Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 16:07:41 (PST)
Paul is feeling much better. Maybe because they took the tube out of his nose, or maybe because he got to see the Patriots' game on TV. No food yet, just sips of water. Recuperation seems to be proceding normally. Thanks for your calls and good thoughts.
Ramona
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 15:26:52 (PST)
This all sounds like good news, Mom. Glad to know Dad is recovering well and in good hands. So Mona, what is the Ping update?
Paula
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 05:39:48 (PST)
Here's the update: The reluctant patient is still feeling fairly miserable, primarily in the area of the incision, but they do give him pain-killers to make it bearable. He sat up in a chair for a while today, and walked down the hall with the aid of 2 nurses. He is not allowed any food or drink by mouth and he hates the dry mouth part. The surgeon and his regular doctor saw him today, but they came between my visits. They all say he's doing fine, but he can't understand why he feels so weak. (I think he has overly-rosy memories of what recovery was like after his last surgery.)There are fewer patients than usual so he gets lots of attention, and the nurses and CNAs are all very nice. Watch this space for tomorrow's report.
Ramona
Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 16:43:49 (PST)
Okay, Mom, where is the update?
Paula
Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 14:07:08 (PST)
To all of you who don't already know: Paul (aka Buddy) is in the hospital here in Brevard, having undergone emergency surgery yesterday to remove an intestinal blockage that had developed, probably due to scar tissue from previous surgery. He was in intense pain for some hours before the surgeon applied her expertise, and then assured us that he should be making a full recovery after some days of recuperation. Our Christmas plans are, at this point, uncertain, and will depend on how quickly the Golden Greek bounces back.
I will continue to report on his progress.
Ramona
Saturday, December 07, 2002 at 05:09:09 (PST)
Good night, My Big Fat Greek Family.
mona
Friday, December 06, 2002 at 22:05:23 (PST)
Still snowing here in Mass - not that much snow on the ground, but it does look pretty
Scott
Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 21:08:07 (PST)
We are snowed in here in the NE. I heard a horrible "Yankee" prediction today at work. The saying is "what ever the date of the first snow fall is the amount of snow storms we'll have for the winter." We are in for 27 snow "days" Ouch. Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 16:10:07 (PST)
No, we are not without power, but if that should happen we are ready with firewood and condles. Often we get better weather that those to the north, south, east and west of us. Maybe that accounts for the smugness Brevardians sometimes display--we tend to think we're special, or blessed or just plain lucky.
Ramona
Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 13:08:06 (PST)
We saw Brevard on the national news the other day (night?) -- showing how the town is all lit up, and something about people donating funds to keep the electricity coming? Then this morning, on the radio, I heard about massive power outages in NC -- is that in your area? (of course, if it is, I guess you won't be reading this!)
mona
Thursday, December 05, 2002 at 09:46:37 (PST)
We're here in a winter wonder-land, taking a break from normal activities since most things, including schools and such, are closed. Tomorrow looks like more of the same, so we may get Christmas cards written or cookies made or whatever the winter weather inspires. All this white stuff should be cleared out by Saturday in time for Brevard's Twilight Tour, an annual event with all kinds of festive things happening downtown. Small town living does have its charm!
Ramona
Wednesday, December 04, 2002 at 19:03:17 (PST)
Thank you all for the birthday wishes! i am enjoying my new pjs and cd player (thank you very much steve!!!!!) we just got back from dinner where they sang the b-day song and put whip cream on my face. thanks again
love,
Betsy
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 19:11:48 (PST)
Big happy birthday hugs to my beautiful love, from me too!! Spankings will wait till I get home. heh heh
mona
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 15:23:07 (PST)
Happy Birthday betsy.I love you
Vanessa
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 11:36:28 (PST)
well elizabeth ann your day has come again. may all that is good happen to you and none that is bad. You keep well and I am proud to be related to you. And a lot of love too. your buddy
paul
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 11:13:35 (PST)
A very Happy Birthday to Ms. Betsy. Fourteen already. Too bad you have to go back to school on your birthday after having four days off. Or are you going to celebrate by making it a five day weekend? I hope we get to see you before Christmas. §
Steve
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 07:37:43 (PST)
A very happy 14th birthday to Betsy! Hope it is warmer there than here on the frigid East Coast, so that you can get the most out of YOUR day. The real question is, how will my half-birthday soul mate celebrate today? Chocolate cake? Friends? Family? Can't wait to hear. Love from,
Auntie Paula
Monday, December 02, 2002 at 04:24:56 (PST)
Greetings to everyone from Halima, Mary and Alex.
They are well. Mary looks better than I have seen her look for a very long time. Except for a weekness in her right arm and hand she feels very good and seems to be in good spirits. Alex adores her and they sort of watch out for each other.
Alex is nine years old now. He is a well adjusted young man dispite all the disruptions and changes he has had to deal with. No army brat is he.
I wish you all a healthy holiday season and love, Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Sunday, December 01, 2002 at 10:26:32 (PST)
And this one loves you back, Paula.
mona
Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 17:43:05 (PST)
We, too, are very thankful for our family, near and far, and for all of the friends we have collected along the way. Sometimes we wish we weren't all so spread out, but then we wouldn't have our excuse for wandering ways. We are in Portland for our annual feast, and hoping that all are happily settled in for yours....§
Steve & Ana
Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 16:15:09 (PST)
On this day of Thanksgiving I am thankful for my wild and wacky family. Each and every one of you.
Paula
Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 08:36:11 (PST)
Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
Love Wendy
wendy
Thursday, November 28, 2002 at 05:35:18 (PST)
Yeah, finally some good news on this ole board. Thanks for the update, Wendy, we were just wondering what was up with Peter. It just goes to show why we keep the faith. Our thoughts and hopes are all with you and the rest of your family. §
Steve
Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 19:33:12 (PST)
What wonderful news, Wendy. Thanks for letting us know about Peter and his progress. I know it has been an awful year for all of you as you waited and waited for some good news. I hope his recovery continues and that he will back home with his family before too long. Do keep adding your bit to the message board and give us any news from your branch of the family.
Ramona
Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 19:14:57 (PST)
Hello Everyone,I am so srry to hear the awful news about Paul.My prayers and thoughts are with everyone.I thought I would give everyone some good news Peter is doing wonderful, he can nod his head yes and no. He understands everything that is going on. He is also eating 100%.Peter has gained alot of his weight back he looks very good. Peter is also able to read. Me and my family are trying to plan a benefit dance to raise money to get Peter home. We don't have all the details yet but when we do I'll let eveyone know. Hopefully it'll be in April or May.
We'll my son Israel will be eight Dec 22, my daughter Tiffany is 17 months.When I learn how to put pictures on the computer I will.I think of everyone all the time.God Bless Everyone.
Love Wendy Moser
wendy
Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 16:08:21 (PST)
That is an absolutely beautiful piece of music. So warm and strong and moving. Thank you for sending on the link, Naki. Have a safe trip, and give my love to Mary and Halima.
mona
Sunday, November 24, 2002 at 19:32:31 (PST)
Hello every body. FYI we set up a web site for Christines Lullaby. The Song is beautiful, it captures the essence of who she was. I have to admit I heard it once and cried so hard for so long I just can't listen to it right now. Not for awhile any way. One day I know I will be stronger and I will be able to do it:
http://www.ciates.com/Christines_Lullaby/
What a beautiful gift this young man gave us.
Have a great holiday to all and much love, Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Sunday, November 24, 2002 at 19:24:09 (PST)
Hello everyone: I got a message from Tillie, Mickey's wife. Carl and Mickey are in Juneau, the meorial service will be on Monday for Paul. When they return they will make make plans for a memorial service in Boston, I expect sometime after the Holidays????. Just thought you would like to know.
Have a good Holiday...We are off to Colorado Springs in the morning. Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Sunday, November 24, 2002 at 12:02:15 (PST)
Thanks for the update, Tilli. I've decided not to go to Juneau. I'm glad that the family will be well-represented. Be sure to tell Mickey, Karl and Alan that they are welcome to stop by Seattle on the way home.
Tim and Ana and me are just putzing around the house for the weekend. We rebuilt the woodshed and installed some new computer games. Looking forward to a low key Thanksgiving in Portland. Hope everyone is well...§
Steve
Saturday, November 23, 2002 at 16:24:02 (PST)
Hello Everyone,
Please bear with me as this is a first time for me. I just wanted to update you on arrangements for Paul. Mickey called last night. He, Karl and Alan are in Juneau with Kim and her family. There is going to be a viewing Sunday and a memorial service Monday. Paul's obituary is in the JuneauEmpire.com
They are planning to have a memorial service back here once they have had a chance to discuss it with Kim.
I'm glad we all had a chance visit with Paul while he was out here last month. Paul was a very warm and special person.
Take care of yourselves. Love, Tilli
Tilli Helmar
Saturday, November 23, 2002 at 09:16:39 (PST)
Mona,
Hey darlin....I hope ur David is ok soon. I hate that you are missing so much sleep and work. I know the strain you are under. Just count to 10 and think of the lovely sun 'n sand on the lovely gulf beaches and relax a moment. Just call it albert's therapy;)) Get well soon David.
albert
Albert Sharpton
Friday, November 22, 2002 at 16:21:19 (PST)
Nope, not pain free. In fact, it's been 5 days, and he hasn't gotten any better. I'll email you, Scott. Thanks for your wishes, you too, Paula. I'm just running on fumes, so forgive me if I seem....whatever.
mona
Friday, November 22, 2002 at 10:28:38 (PST)
Thanks for keeping us in mind, Leo...and for the poem and touching words...one of the most moving things I have read...things we love but don't understand...that really rings true...to appreciate something without feeling the the need to "understand" it...can open new doors.
Also what Naki said rings true for me...that long delayed trip to Alaska...wouldn't be the same anymore...but am still grateful for any chances to connect with loved ones scattered about here and there.
Hoping to see you, Leo, and other members of the family sometime soon.
Best wishes to Ping. Hope those doctors are at least keeping you pain-free.
Scott
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 20:32:54 (PST)
So sorry to hear about David, Mona. Make sure to give him a hug for me. I am sending get well vibes through cyberspace-tell him to be on the lookout for them. I am not sure how long they take to cross the country.
Paula
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 19:43:03 (PST)
That is a wonderful picture of Paul...it looks so much like I remember him, so handsome.
David's been in and out of the hospital and the clinic, with a blood clot in his other leg, and much pain, since last Sunday night. I know he hates for me to talk about him, but I hope you will keep him in your thoughts. He's awfully important to us. I've been missing too much work and too much sleep. I'm looking forward to a nice quite Thanksgiving break next week, to tell you the truth.
Naki, (I knew what you meant about "Wow", but Wow Aunt seemed to fit you so well, anyhow, so I used it!) will you send me contact info for Halima? I hope you have a good trip, and will give my love to Mary and Halima and Alex.
mona
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 18:43:13 (PST)
Hey Leo - it is wonderful to have you here at long last, despite the very sad circumstances. Thank you so much for putting the link to the newspaper article on this board. A great article on Paul as well as a great photo. He certainly was loved, and will most certainly be missed by us all. Please do keep writing. Love from your cousin,
Paula
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 17:12:59 (PST)
Hi Ramona: Kim's Address is; 730 Gold St. Juneau Alaska 99801...mai is helmar@alaska.net...how are you doing Ramona and how is the Uncle...the boys all went up to Alaska exceot for me. They had left at 7:30 this morning and will be staying there until Monday. I posted some pictures with Mark I hope he puts them up one of the pictures I sent ws of Stephen and Scott in front of my house around 1978...Mickey said he will organize something around here for Paul but that will be later ...we havn't come up with anything solid. We will keep you posted and I will post any news on this site. Thank You Mark and Paula for a site to communicate with. Good work by great kids...Leo
Leo
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 16:49:47 (PST)
Yes, thank you, Leo. Could you send me Kim's address in Juneau (ramona@stylos.net) Thanks
Ramona
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 15:56:38 (PST)
What a nice article about Paul. A nice picture, too. Paul will be missed by many. My thoughts are with the remaining Helmar brothers. My home is open if any of you are coming through Seattle on the way to Juneau. §
Steve
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 13:46:32 (PST)
This is a link to an article in the Juneau Empire about Paul http://juneauempire.com/stories/112002/loc_helmar.shtml
Leo P. Helmar
Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 10:58:05 (PST)
Thanks for your night night Mona, what I meant by Wow Aunt is that we were almost the same age and WOW I was their Auntie.
We are spending Thanksgiving week with Mary and Co in Colorado. I am not excited about traveling but as we all have become quite aware of....one never knows what will happen. Mary will be 84 in January.
Love to you all, Naki Wow
Naki
Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 21:06:51 (PST)
Sleep well, dear family. Especially Naki, my Wow Aunt!!
mona
Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 20:50:55 (PST)
Dear family: I find myself greiving once again and I just don't know what to say. Paul and I talked to the wee hours of the night of those so long ago when we were kids. The recollection of bitter sweet days.
I am so happy we got to see eachother one more time.
Sorry that Lee, Peter, Sue and I never made the trip to Alaska we talked about so many times. It was always next year we would do it. Life takes us on these journeys and we should know do it now for there may not be a next year, or even a next day.
My love to Mickey, Allen, Carl and Leo. Even though we were physically far apart through these years, you have always been in my thoughts. You guys were the biggest part of my life as we grew up together.
Me the AUNT that was a big WOW!!!
Steve if you are thinking of going to Alaska try for the airlines berievement rate. It may be more affordable. You already may know about such an offer but I mention it just incase you don't. Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 08:28:47 (PST)
The Wind Hover : Gerard Manley Hopkins
I caught this morning morning's minion, kingdom of daylight's dauphin, dapple dawn drawn Falcon, in his riding
Of the rolling level underneath him steady air, and striding
High there, how he rung upon the rein of a wimpling wing
In his ecstacy! then off, off forth on swing.
As a skate's heel sweeps smooth on bow-bend: the hurl and the gliding
Rebuffed the big wind. My heart in hiding
Stirred for a bird,--the achieve of, the mastery of the thing!
Brute beauty and valour and act, oh, air, pride, plume, here
Buckle! AND the fire that breaks from thee then, a billion
Times told lovelier, more dangerous, O my chevalier!
No wonder of it: sheer plod makes plough down sillion
Shine, and blue-bleak embers, ah my dear
Fall, gall themselves, and gash gold-vermillion.
written: 1877
published: 1918
Somewhere in the 1970's me and my brother were talking about school and poetry...always loved the stuff never had much exposure to it....and he told me about a poem he read in his class either at merrit or Sn Francisco State. and he discussed and read this poem to me. The poem above. I memorized this poem and it is always with me...he showed me through this poem how to read and love something i loved but didn't understand...since then i glow with many poems i read and understood....My uncle Buddy did a similar thing around the same time...with reading MacBeth....just a thought on two people in my life who gave me these great Gifts...thats all I need to say I think of them both a lot and how they influenced those great things in me this is the thing of God
Leo P. Helmar
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 20:02:18 (PST)
Very sad remembrances of another lost cousin. My heart goes out to the Helmar boys tonight, with the loss of brother Paul, as well as to his wife and children. Take care of yourselves and each other.
Paula
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 19:12:08 (PST)
Thank God for ((((Andrea))))'s good news. Maybe the only thing that can make things better, these beautiful new souls that come to us...
I think with sadness at the loss of young David, and send my love to his parents and sister and brother.
And I send out daily prayers (because it is in my beliefs) for our Peter Watts, and for Rona and Artie and the Mosers.
And I am just devastated to hear about Paul Helmar. Floored really. This is so sad...
Everyone, do take care, and do know I love you.
mona
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 15:23:51 (PST)
you really never know how to accept the news that someone you loved has passed away. I only hope that Paul knew how special he was. It seems always apropiate to say that, but in thus case it is ph so true. Although it is against my beliefs, I hope and pray there is a heaven and all are greeting Paul.
good bye Paul, your memory lives on.
paul
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 14:38:06 (PST)
What terrible news from Alaska. Paul seemed so healthy when we saw him last month. And he was looking so forward to the future. Death is always such a shock, and always touches that same spot in my stomach. I will always remember Paul as such a gentle, sensitive soul. He was so kind to me when I showed up in Alaska in 1974 with nothing and nobody. His messages on this board were always so welcome. My heart aches. §
Steve
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 14:21:50 (PST)
To everyone: Some bad news just arrived which I will pass on to you now: Paul Helmar died today of a heart attack. I don't know any of the details yet. When I do I will pass them on to you. Mickey and Carl are going to go to Alaska. They plan to have a Memorial Service in Boston after the first of the year. And so it goes. Naki
hansonnaki@msn.com
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 11:55:59 (PST)
This board is truly a slice of life. Congratulations to Andrea and Vinnie (hurray! more cousins!) And sad remembrances of lost cousins, especially David Jr. today. I picture him and Jerry causing a ruckus wherever they are.
Paula
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 11:06:54 (PST)
David E. Straley Jr., 5/21/71 - 11/19/89. Wish you were here David Jr. RIP
The Straley Family
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 09:57:01 (PST)
Way to go Andrea! Way to go Vinny!
Send me your new email address, would you please!
Mark
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 09:41:55 (PST)
Hi all! It's been a while since I've posted, so I thought I'd share my good news. Vinnie and I are expecting baby #2! We are thrilled to say the least. The estimated due date is June 5. The family continues to grow.....
Andrea
Tuesday, November 19, 2002 at 09:31:20 (PST)
Greetings to the Stylos Family!!
I want to thank each of you for your warm thoughts on extending to me a senior discount on my age!!!! So for that, I will donate 10 candles to y'all and count my age as 65. Is that legal....or fattening??;))
Bro Albert....who is quicker now than I was in '49;))
Albert
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 22:24:00 (PST)
And a Happy Birthday from the Pacific Northwest to Brother Albert. Three quarters of a century. Pretty impressive. I hope that the next 75 years are even better for you...§
Steve
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 20:55:15 (PST)
Happy Birthday, Al, down there in the tropics.
Paula
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 18:45:19 (PST)
Let it be known that Brother Albert down there in Mississippi is celebrating his 75th birthday today. Happy Birthday, Al!
Ramona
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 18:18:10 (PST)
And from the Mississippi Gulf Coast.....the grass is green, the weather is just perfectly enscounced in the 62ish range...and all is well!!
Bro. Albert...from the warm coast
Albert Sharpton
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 16:34:50 (PST)
I was kidding.
Paula
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 15:42:31 (PST)
I never know when you're kidding, Paula. It is COLD here and I'm not very happy about it. But there's a big almost-full moon and I AM happy about that. (Not that it wasn't expected...)
Ramona
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 15:33:05 (PST)
And today is even better!
Paula
Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 11:17:36 (PST)
Who needs a cruise when I can look out my window to a lovely mix of rain, sleet, snow, and ice....ah New England!
Paula
Saturday, November 16, 2002 at 06:13:09 (PST)
Yes, a cruise does sound good about now. And in honor of that, we have made our plans to go to Greece, although the only cruising we will be doing is taking a ferry to the islands. We'll go February 13 and return on February 24. So far it's Dad, Ana, Jillian and me. And we are working on the Antibes contingent. Any other takers? Winter arrived a few weeks ago in a matter of minutes, not hours. It started raining for the first time in months and hasn't quit yet. And there is no end in sight. It's all the dark that gets to me. Hope all is where throughout Stylosville...§
Steve
Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 08:00:48 (PST)
Well Scott I am glad for you that Joe is close to getting his license. Jess, is learning how to drive on her learners permit. We have tried the highway, Route 140, a few times in the past few weeks. this voyage brings back memories of learning how to drive back in Newton. Remember those days!
If we get anymore rain I can put a boat in my swamp and take a cruise on it!
I agree cameras can be a pain when you want to relax!
Kim
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 17:46:43 (PST)
A cruise sounds good right about now. Would like to see the pictures, at least.
I'm enjoying life in the big city - Northampton. Miss being close to the kids though. Joe should have his drivers license very soon though - now he's 17 and finished drivers ed.
Scott
Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 21:05:23 (PST)
Hi everyone: We got back on 11/1 from riding the high seas. Actually the sea was very calm and the temp was hot. We spent more time on the water than I thought we would, no time in any port to do any sight seeing. We had a great time being with Bill and Ginny, Ned and Barbara and John and Dawn.
No Paula Lee nor I took pictures but everyone else did. Neither of us felt like having the responsibility of keeping track of the camera. Sounds stupid hu? We just wanted to get away with no cares even to look after a camera. Love Naki
Naki
Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 08:42:41 (PST)
Hello to Everyone! I hope everyone has been well. I myself have just finished raking a few truckloads of leaves. The funny thing is it does not look like I accomplished anything. But the Indian Summer morning was nice to enjoy. For some reason it seems like we have more leaves this year than last.
Thanks for all the Bubba memories. Peter thank you for being a part of the day. It would be nice some day to sail on the ocean on a cruise ship-maybe in a few years! The cruise stories that you hear makes it sound like a wondeful adventure.
Kim
Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 09:36:23 (PST)
And Naki, glad to hear you all had a good time on the cruise. Did you take photos? I have always wanted to go on a cruise and can't wait to hear all about it.
Paula
Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 04:59:05 (PST)
Geez - if only we could hsve time and money simultaneously. Or did they give you all a nice severance package? Keep working on that swing. Fore!
Paula
Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 04:45:59 (PST)
I think my new career, at least for a while, may be amateur golfer. The company I work for went under last week.
Mark
Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 01:34:57 (PST)
I meant Doug and steph!
what did the hotdog vendor sell Hare K?
Arnon Palty
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 10:41:34 (PST)
Yo Doug and Steff!
How was yer honeymoon?
drop me a line!
Arnon Palty
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 10:39:00 (PST)
Thanks for the birthday wishes. I'm so tired now I can hardly keep my eyes open. Goodnight, Everybody.
Ana
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 21:13:39 (PST)
Hi to all: We made it back from our cruise. We ate and sailed for about 3,000 miles. It was nice to be with Bill, Ginny, Ned, Barbara, John and Dawn. We all had a good time. It was good, though to get back to my own bed and pillow. We are going to Colorado for Thanksgiving week. Kathy and family and also Uncle Peter are going to go to Mark's nephew's home for Thanksgiving dinner. Wish you all a happy holiday.
This used to be my favorite holiday. Love Naki
Naki
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 20:15:12 (PST)
Busy busy day here - will post more later. Me and Miranda spent the day in the big city - portrait sitting, fancy Thai restaurant and then the Art Museum to see the Frida Kahlo exhibit, (though personally, I got more enjoyment out of the Ancient Greece exhibit).
All's well. Yes, we are relations of the Maine Pingree's (who just gifted the New England Forestry Foundation w/ 10 million acres of forest land). Also the Pingree's of Salem, if you ever happen by that way, be sure to visit the Pingree House. And of course, the Pingree's of Newton, whose fortune eventually went to the Fessendens - like they really needed it. Long, interesting, sad story.
My best wishes have already been sent along to our dear Anastasia Kandis Stylos.
And I would also like to inquire about Mark's 'new profession??
mona
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 20:14:54 (PST)
Mark...new profession?
Paula
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 14:48:55 (PST)
Congrats to Mona and David: I guess you are no longer legally responsible! Happy Birthday Miranda, Happy Birthday Ana. We wish you both all the best, and hope to see you again soon! I celebrated with the first day of my new profession...
Mark
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 12:33:16 (PST)
well I'll be. It is birthday time again. This time it is the beautiful girls on the west coast. Oh well you can have happy birthdays wherever you may be. And I will allways wish you both the best of everything. And Miranda If you go into politics, you would be as good as the Pingree's in Maine. Why they may even be relatives and could give you some helpful pointers. And Ana you keep getting better and I will figure some worthwhile pointers for you. And to both of you, all my love and best wishes. ps
paul
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 12:25:02 (PST)
How did you get to be 18, Miranda? And don't say the usual way. Why, I remember when I was taller than you. (Don't laugh!) I am with Steve, we could have used your help in the election. So how are you going to celebrate? Do tell. And have a happy birthday.
Your Doting Aunt, Paula
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 11:10:30 (PST)
Happy, Happy to Ana and Miranda! I can't beleive that you are 18 Miranda. Too bad your birthday wasn't last week. You could have voted and maybe we wouldn't be in this mess. Ana is all healed up from her shoulder and ready to party hearty. She is planning to have a sleep-over at her Mom's on Friday night. We'll let you know how it all comes out...§
Steve
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 08:56:29 (PST)
HEY! It is Anana's birthday! Hurray! Hope you are all healed from your adventure on the jungle gym so you can party. I wish I could be there to give you your spankings in person, but I guess this will have to do. Have a wonderful day.
Auntie Paulala
Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 04:45:18 (PST)
what,s up
claire williams
Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 03:32:25 (PST)
Thank you. Its a privilege and a pleasure to be part of the Stylos world, a truly remarkable family.
Mark A
Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 18:34:42 (PST)
Yeah, Mark A., I'm sure we don't have to remind you what an important part of this family you have become. I hope that the apartment in Boston is working out as well as you had hoped and that I get a chance to visit you there before long. Have a great day and a great year...§
Steve
Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 08:29:39 (PST)
Why is this day different from all other days? Because it's election day? NO. Because it's Mark Allan's birthday! Have a good one, Mark, and don't work too hard. Do something special, like take a few minutes off in the middle of the day for lunch.
Thanks for joining our family twenty-something years ago!
Ramona
Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 05:46:12 (PST)
hi everyone and thank you for your thoughts as we presented bob baba straleys ashes at the newton cemetary. it was a beautiful day on friday and bob would have been happy to see the next generation of grandchildren there for him. david did a beautiful job of handeling the service and we all just enjoyed being together ... i must say i looked with pride around at this next generation they are beautiful strong people. fun loving too. it was so nice peter could join us i know it was a long trip for him. we then went to dorothys for brunch and had such a good time being together. thank you for all your thoughts of us on that day. love you all sue
sue straley
Monday, November 04, 2002 at 14:24:08 (PST)
Just a tad late ... Happy 17 Joe!
Mark
Monday, November 04, 2002 at 00:50:39 (PST)
We are back from a weekend in Kentucky. Saw friends and relatives and sold 36 books at the Kentucky Book Fair in Frankfort. We were treated to a reception at the Buffalo Trace Distillery, with free-flowing bourbon (among other things) for all.
Ramona
Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 18:44:15 (PST)
Happy Birthday Joe. I hope you had fun camping up in New Hampshire. Enjoy being SEVENTEEN.
Ramona
Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 18:40:56 (PST)
Hi everybody. Joe is off camping in New Hampshire, but should be back later today. We (me, Jeff, Lis and until a few minutes ago Cameron) are enjoying a lazy Sunday afternoon. The new apartment is fun, although not fully organized yet. Later today Jeff and I are going to a concert in Cambridge, and then I'll take him back to RI.
Scott
Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 09:53:50 (PST)
Happy Birthday Joey. What great plans do you have for today? Looks like you get a crisp and sunny autumn day to celebrate. Motorcycling? Eating cake? Raking leaves? Do tell.
Paula
Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 06:10:35 (PST)
It must be at least November 3 in Worthington. So a big Happy Birthday to Joe! I hope the day is perfect. I always thought Sunday was a good day to celebrate. Sure hope it is a great day and a great year, Joe. §
Steve
Saturday, November 02, 2002 at 22:25:20 (PST)
My thoughts are with all the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren of Bob and Helen Straley. Though I cannot be with you in person for the memorial service today, I will be there in spirit.
Paula
Friday, November 01, 2002 at 03:02:39 (PST)
Yes, all throughout October I think of Jerry. So many memories, so long ago. Thirty three years, and it still seems like yesterday. What a legacy of love you left behind, my brother.
Paula
Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 17:37:37 (PST)
Happy Halloween to one and all! This date always makes me think of brother Jerry, who died 33 years ago. I think he would be proud of the family we turned out to be. Know you are still missed, Jerry, wherever you might be. §
Steve
Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 08:08:23 (PST)
Happy Birthday from me too, Sophie. I hope you have a wonderful day, and that Vanessa and Jerome shower you with all the love and attention you deserve!
Paulala
Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 09:28:09 (PST)
Yes, a Bon Anniversaire to Sophie, even though I can never remember whether it is the 30th or 31st. Hope things are going well for you and the rest of the family. Maybe we'll see you this spring...§
Steve
Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 07:48:33 (PST)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Sophie, lovely mother of Vanessa and Jerome. We wish you all the best.
Ramona and Paul
Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 05:59:00 (PST)
well here's to bob straley, bubba to our cousins. i always remember his laugh, and the rattle of coins in his pockets. happy travels uncle bob
athena
Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 07:40:44 (PST)
Please know you have my condolences, David.
mona
Monday, October 28, 2002 at 20:00:26 (PST)
On Friday November 1st at 10:30 am a memorial service will be held for the late Robert James Straley at the Newton Cemetary. Refreshments will be served after the ceremony at the home of Dorothy Straley: 15 Oak Ave, West Newton, MA. Please RSVP to David Straley @ 508-339-6794
David Straley
Monday, October 28, 2002 at 15:00:57 (PST)
Finally got back to Juneau Wednesday night after leaving Boston Monday morning. Could't get into Juneau because of fog at the airport. Wasn't
looking forward to the dark rainy cold weather my wife Kim had been
reporting but was pleasantly surprised at the Indian summer conditions-
partially clear warm sunshine except around the glaciers which were
producing fog. The Mendenhall Glacier sits at the primary entrance to
the airport runway in Juneau. We spent a day in Yakutat walking around
where it was warm and sunny with coho salmon in the streams and the
Fairweather Range glowing in the distance.
We had a great time with my son Leo for week in New York City and
Boston- the most fun was finding some batting cages on Long Island
near JFK airport. Leo hit so many balls he ended up with a giant
blister on his left hand. We sent him off to Europe with his pal,
Jarrod. They have Eurrail passes with an end goal of Greece and
Fillipiaou.
The final week visiting: Lee and Naki in Easton where even though they
are still struggling over their castrophic losses they were kind and
gracious with their visitors. Kathy provided a great spaghetti dinner, cooked to Uncle Peter's and Uncle Buddy's specifications (no
onions or garlic), Steve, Uncle Lee, Mark and the girls all joined in
the feast. On to Bill and Jenny's place where we met Alex, Monique and
the twins an were treated royally
paul helmar
Monday, October 28, 2002 at 12:57:51 (PST)
We fell back. We got a startling reminder of how many things we own that depend on us to tell them what time it is. (Then, for the next half a year, they will tell us.) And finally, after 6 months, the clock in my car shows the right time.
Ramona
Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 17:40:34 (PST)
Well I was in Northampton yesterday, but was sadly missed too. Perhaps. I visited Jess in her wonderful new place, and then down to Northampton (passing Melinda going North on 91 while I was headed South) to have dinner with old friend. A beautiful fall day today, but over all too soon. Did we all fall back?
Paula
Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 13:27:52 (PST)
Thank you, sweetheart Athena. I guess I just wanted to hear it. My weakness, I guess.
...been thinking about all the stories I could tell about 60 Montvale. From the time lightening struck the rock out back, leaving a crack that was filled w/ dirt and a tree grew out of....to the whole *thing* about the 3rd floor....to the time I went to the "Newton Room" at the library and saw the Plat Book, that showed how the lots on Montvale came to be, in what order, with "Bishop's Creek" originally flowing through the Carriage House of the Greenberger's (that Betsy Matthews and her mom lived in", to the day, Athena's Birthday! when we took down the dividing wals, and on and on...maybe I'll write a book someday.
Fall back (don't spring forward) tonight.
mona
Saturday, October 26, 2002 at 18:47:41 (PDT)
well amy and i brought our takeout over to scott's house in the time honored tradition sweet house i remember lots of good times here. we're eating all his halloween candy. mona we miss you too. as well as all others sadly far away from morthampton. where it is orange and raining.
athena
Saturday, October 26, 2002 at 13:33:10 (PDT)
Dark in Seattle. Can't wait for (the end to?) Daylight Savings Time.
mona
Friday, October 25, 2002 at 10:08:27 (PDT)
Rain in Brevard.
Ramona
Friday, October 25, 2002 at 07:21:23 (PDT)
Yup, snow in Acton.
Paula
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 18:35:20 (PDT)
I brushed a little snow off my windshield this morning, but all clear now.
Scott
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 15:21:37 (PDT)
Is it really snowing in Massachusetts?
mona
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 14:39:05 (PDT)
I can answer that last question: yes, Athena is home. She called after she arrived on Sunday. Scott, you will be pleased with the new woodshed. We'll go over Friday to close the cabin up for the winter. I have left orders with Jim, our local do-it-all man to put down more gravel in the parking area, carry off the load of junk that we put together, give the good lumber to the Arthur Morgan School (Athena saved out 20 or so pieces)and demolish the white shed. When spring comes again we'll be ready to start other projects, like the floor and making a sitting area and fire pit where the white shed sat for so long.
The leaves have finally revealed their bright colors and they're beautiful. Maybe (or maybe not) as lovely as Vermont.
Ramona
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 11:42:03 (PDT)
Yes, Mona, Seth still owns the place but does not live there. I'm on the first floor. Next week I get a DSL line. O Boy! Still haven't figured out where to put the computer though. Plus I need to get another bed, for the guest room.
Is Athena home yet?
Scott
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 10:57:08 (PDT)
Go to bed!
Early Riser
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 00:14:32 (PDT)
OK, who's gonna save me from the top of the page syndrome??
mona
Wednesday, October 23, 2002 at 00:13:45 (PDT)
That is so cool, Scott. Does Seth still own the place?
Betsy and I went to see My Big Fat Greek Wedding yesterday...and, while I loved it, I bet I'm the first person watching it to just cry like a baby....I miss you all so much. sigh...
mona
Monday, October 21, 2002 at 15:54:12 (PDT)
I'm in the new place! Thanks to Joe and his strong friends for the help - not a single broken item, that's a first. And thanks to Mark A. for the vital housewarming present - beer for the fridge.
Nice to see you both - Steve and Dad. Glad you mad it home safe.
And how did things go at the cabin? All closed up for the season?
Scott
Monday, October 21, 2002 at 08:45:19 (PDT)
I made it home safely, but a little late. Seems that I was bumped leaving Boston. So I got there at 7:30 for a noon flight. Not like the old days. The good old days. Happy Birthday (52) to Jerry, wherever you are. And thanks to all for making it a near perfect trip. Till next time...§
Steve
Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 19:45:10 (PDT)
not only am I home but I am using the terminal that Steve bought for me. No trouble at all. Thanks Paula,Mark, Bill Ginny Kathy Jessamine and all for making it a great trip. till naxt time take good care of yourselves. ps
paul
Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 13:29:26 (PDT)
Yes it is. Happy Birthday to my big brother Jerry.
Little Sister Paula
Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 05:45:44 (PDT)
I'll bite, Steve: What is the current owners address...
Mark
Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 14:00:03 (PDT)
First Happy Birthday to Daniel! Perry, I will send Stanley home this week. I hope you got the pictures.
Wow, Steve, what detail! Would have loved to have seen it.
Mark, Vanessa & Jerome
Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 13:57:18 (PDT)
Well, my trip is winding down. I leave for Seattle early tomorrow. I had a most interesting day yesterday. I drove by Montvale Road and ran into the young developer who has purchased it with his wife and is restoring/renovating it. Reg was very accomodating, and gave me a tour. In some ways it is unrecognizable, and other ways is very much the same. It still has that feeling of a good, old house. The backyard has been leveled. More than 3,000,000 pounds of rock was removed. The patio has been removed and a large family room, off the soon to be gourmet kitchen, is being built there. The sun room has is being restored. The back stairs havfe been enclosed, and the bathroom downstairs moved over some. Upstairs, the space has been used in combination part of the a few other rooms to become a large master bedroom. The room over the sunroom will be part of the master bedroom suite, and the center room on the McSweeney side will be the closet and master bath. The front/center bathroom is being expanded. The two third floor rooms on the front side have been combined for a large bedroom. Scott's wallpaper is still up, but not for long.
Perhaps the most amazing thing, though, is that the cellar door is intact. The family height history is still there! The last owners painted around the wall markings. I am hoping that Paula will go over and take some photos before that part is covered up. The house is slated to be finished soon after Christmas. If anyone is interested in talking to the current owner, let me know and I will provide his address/phone. He was very eager to learn the history of house.
I had a nice visit yesterday with the Comenitz's and the Friedmans, including Mickey, Bud and Beth. My next post will be from Seattle....§
Steve
Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 13:10:15 (PDT)
A birthday to remember! How come I miss all the fun?
Paula
Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 05:00:36 (PDT)
It feels like it is still my birthday since I just got back from the wilds of Celo and found all these wonderful birthday wishes. Thanks to one and ALL! I had a really good birthday. Athena and her friends cooked me a good dinner and made a birthday pie for dessert. (The hot pie melted the candles.) We worked during the day on the woodshed which was beginning to take shape. (It is now finished and beautiful.)
Among the unplanned events of the week were: dealing with a swarm of "borer bees" INSIDE the cabin. (Only one sting). The 7 mice that had to be taught a lesson were not planned for, but not unexpected, either. And then today, as we were getting ready to come back to Brevard, Athena turned her ankle (again!) and is now limping around, using two sticks as crutches. She says it's not as bad as the sprain she got here 3 years ago.
I'm sorry I missed the get-togethers up north but there will be other times...Thank you to all who keep this message board fun to read. And thanks to Mark who maintains, edits (and occasionally censors) the postings.
Ramona
Friday, October 18, 2002 at 19:40:32 (PDT)
Belated birthday wishes Ramona. I wasn't amongs the party people. I was at the Easton Polls running a election. I know they had a good time from the news I got.
We enjoyed Paul H. for a few days
Lee and I leave on Sunday for our cruise. Well be back 11/2. Seems like a long time to be away. This is our "Therapy" trip. Neither of us is excited about going but we need it. Be safe, Naki
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Thursday, October 17, 2002 at 21:03:49 (PDT)
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Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 19:43:45 (PDT)
You found us (((Kathy!!)))
mona
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 15:19:15 (PDT)
Happy Birthday Aunt Ramona! We are all celebrating your day here in Southbury. I am blessed with having Uncle Buddie, Stephen, Uncle Peter, and cousine Paul all together. Hope your day is special. I love you.
Kathy
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 15:08:04 (PDT)
And a Happy Birthday from Southbury. Mom, we are having a little impromptu party for you. We being, Lee, Kathy, Mark, Alexandra, Nicole, Peter, Paul I (Dad) and Paul II (Helmar) and me. I hope you are enjoying your birthday as much as we are. Here's to many more!!! §
Steve
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 15:01:48 (PDT)
Well, for me it's only been 45 years, but I wish her the best next 45! We love you Mom!
Mark
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 11:33:06 (PDT)
for the lovely lady that occupied my main interests these past 50 plus years have the birthday that befits the great times. your panos
paul
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 11:30:11 (PDT)
Just kidding!
(((((MoM ~ WoW)))))
Happy happy birthday to you!!!
mona
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 10:53:30 (PDT)
Ditto.
mona
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 10:52:05 (PDT)
The happiest of birthdays to my wonderfullest of mothers. I trust that Athena is treating you well and celebrating with you in the style you so richly deserve. I am there is spirit, enjoying that champagne with you. Love,
Paula
Wednesday, October 16, 2002 at 04:08:16 (PDT)
The Great North We(s)t is sunny and temps in the 70's, but nevermind...
Mom - your package arrived today and I am stunned. It's your birthday (alomst), and I feel like the Birthday Girl! Thank you, so...
mona
Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 20:09:59 (PDT)
This message is in response to my last post. Hello from Scott's house! Hello, that is, from Paul, Pam, Scott, Cameron, Joe, Melissa and Steve. We had a very nice Chinese dinner and are now watching Melissa, Dad and Scott play cribbage. Yes, it's a bit like watching paint dry. Dad and I had a very nice long drive through the Vermont foliage, capped off with a visit with Jessamyn in her nice apartment. Who would have thought she would end up being such a homemaker and a hostess. Tomorrow it is off to Connecticut to see Peter (and maybe Naki and Lee) and Kathy. Then back to Boston for the weekend, the back to the great North Wet. Keep those cards and letters coming....§
Steve
Tuesday, October 15, 2002 at 16:44:13 (PDT)
Well, after quite an adventurous trip from San Francisco to Falmouth, I finally made it to Doug's wedding. Unfortunately, it was well after the "I do's" and the "Now, therefore's". But in plenty of time to share in the celebration, and to have a nice long visit with Doug and Steph. They were both glowing. And I don't think it was the alcohol alone. I'm at Bill & Ginny's now, and will head to the Vineyard later. We'll keep you posted, so to speak. §
Steve
Sunday, October 13, 2002 at 09:45:18 (PDT)
Well, Happy Wedding Day to Stephanie and Doug!! ... preparing for the trip down the aisle as I sit here typing. And wishing you both so much happiness! Have a great party, you all!
mona
Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 07:51:23 (PDT)
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Saturday, October 12, 2002 at 03:54:13 (PDT)
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Friday, October 11, 2002 at 10:49:34 (PDT)
On Friday November 1st at 10:30am a memorial service will be held at the Newton Cemetary in Newton, MA for the late Robert James Straley. After the service refreshments will be served at 15 Oak Avenue, West Newton, MA. Please RSVP to David Straley, 508-339-6794. Thank you.
David Straley
Friday, October 11, 2002 at 10:24:13 (PDT)
Happy 47th Birthday, Mark. Me too....§
Steve
Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 20:32:52 (PDT)
Happy 46th birthday, Mark!!! Now I'm first!! (couldn't help myself)
mona
Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 19:33:42 (PDT)
Never too late, never too early!
My best wishes out to D & S.
Thanks, Mom, I'll let you know when it gets here.
That's all folks!
Mark
Thursday, October 10, 2002 at 11:40:14 (PDT)
is it too late to still wish mark a happy birthday? i guess i could be the first for next year! i am sitting down here in north carolina while dad is in massachusetts (again) but it's good to be here. mom made my friends meg and papi (and me of course) a very good welcome to nc dinner and maybe tomorrow we go to the cabin. and i get to see the pictures of the summer stylos-fest that happened here that mona and i missed. looks like fun! so: safe travels steve, dad, everybody have a good time at dougs wedding, steve maybe they'll hold the ceremony for you if you're late like my nice brother did for me one time. enjoy the volvo! doug: happy marriage!
athena
Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 17:50:26 (PDT)
Steve, I'm sure your dad plans to meet your plane (assuming he knows the time and place). He has Athena's car. She just called from her stop-over in Detroit. Good luck in the courtroom!
Ramona
Wednesday, October 09, 2002 at 09:22:39 (PDT)
My journey has begun. I'm in San Francisco, the hearing begins tomorrow. It doesn't look like I will have any Seattle time between now and Saturday. My house and cat are in the capable hands of young Tim. I haven't done any trial work in awhile, so wish me luck. And yes, Paula, of course you are on my schedule. I may even have to stop by very briefly to shower before the wedding on Saturday. Dad, are you going to be able to pick me up at the airport on Saturday morning? Or should I reserve a car? See many of you all soon...§
Steve
Tuesday, October 08, 2002 at 18:59:12 (PDT)
Mark: The DVD you expressed interest in is on its way to you, USPS.
Ramona
Monday, October 07, 2002 at 10:03:54 (PDT)
I Left Dad happily sleeping in Beacon Hill this morning. Yesterday we walked down "memory lane", toured Haymarket Square, ate pasta in the North End, and pastries by the waterfront. Then home to a few games of cribbage. Good (as usual) to have him here.
Paula
Monday, October 07, 2002 at 04:37:55 (PDT)
Looking forward to seeing you, Steve. Hope we are on your schedule.
Paula
Saturday, October 05, 2002 at 10:49:32 (PDT)
Not too much news from the east side of the Puget Sound. I'm busy getting ready for my trial which is scheduled to go from Wednesday until Friday. Then I'll catch a redeye to Boston on Friday night, hopefully in time to make it to Doug's wedding on Saturday morning in Falmouth. I'll probably spend the next week in New England (probably Boston and Martha's Vineyard), then return to Seattle on October 20th. Ana's arm/shoulder is healing up on schedule. She says it doesn't hurt anymore. We are spending the day making up the homework she missed while she was invalidated and sedated. Of course we on the west coast are enjoying seeing the Yankees squirm. Hope you are all well, and that I get to see many of you soon...§
Steve
Saturday, October 05, 2002 at 10:03:59 (PDT)
So it is Perry's birthday, huh? Reading the message board yet? Where is the William Stylos clan? Happy birthday, Perry, just the same.
Paula
Friday, October 04, 2002 at 15:48:56 (PDT)
Good morning, my fellow fellows!
The rains have returned to the Northwest, and boy am I glad of it! Mornings are dark, but that's OK - sure do love the turning of the seasons. We're having an especially colorful fall, for some reason.
Miranda has chosen to 'take some time off', working 2 jobs and trying to make a dent in her car loan (not her car), so she can go back to school w/o the worry of all that debt hanging over her head. As I type, she's sleeping peacefully, as only a teenager can do.
Betsy started horse riding lessons again. She's very good at it (or so I'm told), and really loves it. It gives you an amazing boost of confidence, to be able to control such a huge animal. What's the saying? "The outsides of a horse is good for the insides of a man"...or something like that.
And Paul has taken to Jr High School like a duck to water. Dresses stylish. Has 2nd chair in the (very competitive) band. We get to hear him practice at home, at night, and he sounds great. Satchmo would be proud! His heart's desire is to buy a Playstation 2, but until he learns to take care of what he already has a little better, (OK, a LOT better), I'm afraid that's just a pipe dream.
David and I are both terribly busy at work. Which I guess is better than not having work to be busy at. But not much better. :)
My love to all!
mona
Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 08:13:22 (PDT)
Fixed ...
The WatchMan
Thursday, October 03, 2002 at 00:40:07 (PDT)